One of the main takeaways I want to give my audiences is the message that we ALL have been through adventures in our lives. This means we ALL have a choice to make: After you have gone through a difficult life adventure, how do you decide to respond to those around you?
This past week was an adventure for me and my family. I had a seizure. This meant I had to choose how I would act as a result. I knew my husband as well as my two young kids would see my emotional response to this issue and base their response on that.
Don’t You See the Rainbow?
My 8 year old daughter especially would be looking for a lead to how she would feel since she was the one who found me on the floor after this test of our faiths took place. The day after the seizure, my arm showed very obvious bruises from the fall I had taken at my desk. She pointed them out and showed signs of concern and even fright.
I knew I could go ahead and feel sorry for myself and cause her to lose trust in her mother’s ability to handle life’s little bumps. Instead, I saw an opportunity to show her that a few bruises were not going to shake her mom’s world. I had already seen that the biggest bruise on my arm was actually quite colorful. I quickly stated with a pleasant tone “Don’t you see the rainbow?” I couldn’t believe how quickly her demeanor changed. She now had a smile on her face and laughed just a tad. The bruise was never an issue after that.
The Lesson
One of the most important lessons I believe we can teach our children is that life will not be perfect. Every single one of us will face battles in our lives that may seem impossible at times. We absolutely must be equipped to stay strong in these times and to help others stay strong in their battles. One of my favorite quotes on this topic comes from The Count of Monte Cristo:
“Life is a storm my young friend. You will bask in the sunlight one moment, be shattered on the rocks the next. What makes you a man is what you do when that storm comes.”
Ask Yourself:
How do you respond when life’s adventures storm in? What do those closest to you learn as a result?