Own That Next Step

We all have to make decisions.  Right now, some of us may be forced to make decisions that we never thought we would.  One person may be having to decide whether virtual or face-to-face school is right for his young kids.  Another may have to decide whether to spend the little money she has on food or shelter for her family.

Blessing or Horror?

We are empowered in so many ways to be able to decide for ourselves even when that doesn’t seem to be the case.  Many of us can choose if we will work at home or go into the office.  In America, we have the right to decide on a vote for our own representation in government.  We are able to choose what we will wear.  We are all able to make our own decisions for how we will respond to everything that happens around us.  Still, this is both a blessing and a horror.

Once we make a selection for how we will respond, we own that choice.  In many ways, it is easier to have someone else decide and then have them ready in the shadows to take the blame when that decision ends up to be incorrect.  I know.  I’ve done it.  Thankfully, I have been blessed with MANY wise mentors and most of the time they are correct.  Still, I have been surrounded by MANY wise mentors and that means it is sometimes a little too easy to take their advice instead of stepping out on my own.

When we step out and make our own decision it really is a HUGE step forward.  Whether that decision ends up to be right or wrong.  When it is truly our choice, we know we will have an opportunity to learn and to gain confidence.

Your Decision

I’m sure as you read this today, it has already made you think of an upcoming decision on your horizon.  As you make that choice, whether it is what to make for dinner or whether to move your family to a new city, educate yourself with the information you need, but find your own peace in that decision.  Own that choice.  Be prepared to defend it and not to make waiver later.  Admit if you’re wrong, don’t blame someone else for it.  As a result, no matter what happens after, you will be taking a step forward that will give you reassurance in making every decision hereafter.